Discover how Edwin Ngwane, a budding entrepreneur harnesses resilience, mindset, and strategic relationships to forge his path to greatness through his book “Own The Game”. Credits: Edwin Ngwane
By Duncan Mnisi
Book Review — In a world flooded with self-help books promising instant success, Edwin Ngwane’s Own The Game distinguishes itself as a grounded, insightful, and empowering guide for young men determined to build purpose-driven lives, strong relationships, and successful ventures.
Drawing from the excerpts, Ngwane delivers a straightforward yet impactful message: mindset, strategy, and authenticity are the true cornerstones of success in today’s competitive world.
From the onset, he challenges conventional thinking. “It also opened my mind on the business aspect… Good businesses you can start without a huge capital,” he writes, championing hustle, marketing, and resilience over large financial starting points. His line — “Hustling, winning and marketing — how to handle failures etc.” — captures his belief that perseverance is the engine of progress.
A major theme throughout the book is action. Ngwane makes it clear that dreams require movement:
“Don’t just read this and nod. Actually do it. Your future self is watching your present self right now, hoping you will take action.”
He doubles down on this with his signature blunt tone: “Stop bullsht and take action now!”*
Ngwane also devotes meaningful attention to relationships, especially in the context of building a powerful legacy. He urges young men to seek authenticity rather than manipulation, writing:
“You don’t need pickup lines. You don’t need ‘trick games.’ You don’t need to pretend to be someone you are not.”
This refreshing approach positions honesty and mutual purpose as the foundation of meaningful partnerships.
Another standout insight is Ngwane’s exploration of the three mental monsters that hold people back: Perfectionism, Fear of Judgment, and Entitlement.
He writes, “Perfect is the enemy of done. The market doesn’t reward perfect; it rewards execution.”
It’s a freeing message — encouraging readers to move forward even when conditions aren’t perfect.
Throughout the book, Ngwane reminds readers that courage is the greatest currency.
“Capital isn’t money. Capital is courage,” he asserts — a line that echoes long after the page is turned.
Ultimately, Own The Game is not just a motivational read; it’s a strategic manual for young men striving to take ownership of their futures. With its candid tone, practical lessons, and unapologetic call to self-mastery, the book pushes readers toward resilience, discipline, and authentic living.
One reader summed up its impact perfectly: “It is my first time reading one of your books, and I must say you’re a very good author. I wish more people knew the impact this book has.”
Ngwane’s message is clear: the game of life rewards those brave enough to play it honestly, boldly, and with purpose.
